How to achieve more as an autistic adult

Procrastination definition: “The action of delaying or postponing something.”

From my observations, people on the autistic spectrum procrastinate more than the average neuro-typical.

Those of us with autism often struggle to get started on a task, to tidy our living space, make that phone call, write that essay, tackle that pile of paperwork. We are quickly overwhelmed, confused and stressed out by all the things we need to do each day.

There are many reasons why autistic people procrastinate:

• We find it difficult to plan ahead in our minds
• We are easily overwhelmed when faced with unstructured tasks
• We get confused and mentally tired very quickly
• We get anxious and stressed out easily, and switch off
• It’s difficult to break away from our obsessive interests
• It’s not always easy for us to switch from one task to another
• All of the above contribute to a lack of motivation and lethargy
• The resulting lack of achievement leads to a sense of demoralisation

Procrastination harms our ability to achieve things in life, because we are constantly putting off the things we need to do, in order to progress in our work and social life. This reluctance to get things done is very common amongst the autistic adults and teenagers I work with. Somehow, we, as autistic people have to find, or be shown how to change our mindset. We need to learn strategies that enable us to be more productive, get things done and improve our lives though taking effective action.

Sometimes on a cold, wet, winter’s morning, I sit in front of my computer. I have a to-do list that is half a mile long. On my list is a mixture of work to complete, deadlines to meet, bills to pay calls to make. I sit there staring at the impossible and growing list of things I need to do, and my brain switches off.

Instead, I become hypnotised by the delights of Google search. I check my emails, strum a few chords on my guitar, stroke the dog then make a cup of tea. After an hour or so of prize-winning levels of procrastination and avoidance of the things I really need to do, I am completely overwhelmed by feelings of guilt, at my lack of activity, and achievement. I begin to feel lazy, useless and quite depressed at my ineffectiveness, and lack of progress.

GET THINGS DONE!

How can we achieve more as an autistic adult?

Here’s what I do:

I start by resetting my day, with a quick nap to clear and refresh my brain. I get the coffee on and have a good look through my to-do list. I highlight the items that are the most important. I use different colour pens to make my list easier to follow. For example; Red for urgent, blue for less urgent, green for tasks that could be done the following day. I often take one big job on my list and break it down into small, easy to complete bits. The emphasis should really be on making life easier for yourself, or the autistic person you’re supporting. Try to feel good about each task you tick off your list.

One of the most important things in this strategy is to make sure I cross out each task I complete. This gives me a real sense of achievement and a feeling that I am making good progress in the right direction. After a couple of hours, I look at my to-do list and see that I have actually got a lot done. I am now feeling much more motivated and quite pleased with myself.

I sometimes take another short nap at this point, or do 20 minutes meditation, and stretching exercises to reset my brain, and clear out the fog. I am then ready to complete the rest of the tasks on my to-do list, and even add a few more jobs.

This strategy is not necessarily anything new or revolutionary, it’s just that sometimes those of us on the autistic spectrum need to be reminded, that if we can work to a structured plan, we are capable of achieving some really great things in our lives. Some of us are able to create our own method of overcoming procrastination. There are however, many people on the spectrum that need support to devise a good strategy to help get things done.

For these people, I would urge parents, carers, friends and autism professionals, to help people on the autistic spectrum achieve more, by helping them to improve their planning skills.

Together we can beat the curse of autistic procrastination!